We have all heard ‘Books are Best Friends’. I was a little taken aback though, by the concept of both 'best friends' and 'books being best friends'. Why best friends? Why not just friends? Why not just positive supportive relationships? What makes best friends appear in the same sentence where the subject significantly is 'books'? Over the years, my realisation has been that best friends won’t be around us forever. Yet, we all want to be understood, respected, valued, heard and be able to develop a sense of belonging. It won’t hurt to have someone our back in times of crisis. But it is also true that not all who listen and understand us, become best friends, or, stay with us forever. Sometimes, these personalities become part of moments that are whole on their own. After that, they leave and go wherever they are supposed to go. Even when I write all this, I also feel that it is important to be surrounded by an environment of genuine niceness. ...